Well, then. It’s time for an update.

It’s only been two years. (Oh crap, has it been that long?)

A lot has changed. And I don’t just mean the entire world being turned upside down and inside out by the threat of COVID-19. That, luckily, came long after I packed everything up and moved back home. Returning home defeated – I could not win that game.

That game was not really a game. It was the marriage, and he wasn’t following the rules. So that is done. One cross-country divorce later, I am working on rebuilding my self and my life.

I finally got that job working from home. After looking for about three years, I could not have asked for better timing on the offer I got. Without it I might have had time to languish, might have let myself stop trying.

I’m taking a Happiness class. Because that is what one does when one is feeling the strain of protecting loved ones and not having anywhere to go. I’m working on a 2000 piece puzzle, and that is no small effort. I’m trying to do 30 days of yoga, which I had not done for a very long time (I’m on day 21 and getting better). And I’m Zooming with friends and groups that used to meet in person.

I’m hanging on and hoping.

My plans to start dating again have been thwarted. Maybe that’s a good thing? It will give us all something to talk about.

This isn’t very exciting. There is a lot I am not ready to say.

Just this: appreciate the people in your life. Be kind, be smart, be brave.

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Without you

I’m gonna miss you when you’re gone
It’s gonna feel like nothing’s on
Thousands of shows
But you’re the one I chose
I hope they find a reason
To make another season

I know you all so well, in my mind
Like I’m under a spell, we’re entwined
What would my life be like without you?
Should I feel guilty that I doubt you
           will return
      I mean, people do get burned
           or fired
           And writers can retire…


Yes, it’s been one of those months. Too much TV. I’ve gone through all the seasons of a couple of shows that I really liked. Time wasted? Er…

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How to go see a band


Did you really go to the show so you could stand there with your cell phone and record the band from the dance floor?

Move. Your. Feet.

Put that thing away and dance!


Enjoy the music!

I saw you take that selfie and then sit down again.


Pink drums? Nice!

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Home-made fast food: Crunchy Wrap

Well, I don’t know if I should use the name they have on the menu. If you love it like I do, you’ll know what it is.

You will need:

  • Tortillas. I just used what I have, which is the soft taco style, so I had to scale things down a bit. They’re whole wheat and pretty soft, and worked just fine. You can get the big ones if you want to make a life-sized copy of the fast food version.
  • Tostada shells
  • Sour cream
  • Spinach or mixed greens, because we’re making this at home and we don’t need no lame lettuce in our food
  • Tomatoes, salsa, or something like that. I have canned fire-roasted diced tomatoes this time, and that works fine.
  • Cheese. I’m using queso fresco because I have it on hand and I think it’s awesome, you can use whatever you think will taste good.
  • Ground beef cooked up with taco seasoning. I used the low-sodium version, which is good because most things are too over-flavored for me. I may have added a little more spice since it only came in ‘mild’. It’s good if this is still warm when you start.

Since I’m starting with cold tortillas, I put a skillet over very low heat while I put all the stuff on it. You’ll want to have the warm skillet to make it more ‘cooked’ once you fold it.

Spoon some taco meat into the middle of the tortilla. Go easy, you’ll need to fold the edges over everything in the middle.

You can put the cheese next or wait. Now that I think about it, you might want to put it on the bottom so it starts to warm up and maybe melt by the time you’re ready.

The tostada shell goes on top of the meat/cheese. For my small tortillas, I broke the tostada shell into something about half size.

Spread sour cream on the tostada shell, then put tomato chunks or salsa on top.

Add tomato

After this, you can add cheese if you didn’t already, and top it off with spinach/greens.

Add spinach

Now, fold the tortilla edges in just like you know they do it in the restaurant.

Fold it like they do!

Flip that baby over and warm up the other side. If you have something that you can use to sort of flatten it, that will be even better. It’s up to you how brown you want it.

I’m not going to pretend I didn’t have to hold it together a little while I ate it, but you know it didn’t last long, so no big deal. If you fold it good, you only need to make sure you don’t lose hold of the last flap.


I was pretty darn happy with this one. I hope you enjoy yours!


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I Dared Me

One day I took a look at the blog I had created, and I saw that there were only brittle bones holding it up, occasional posts with gaps of neglect letting the structure sag.

I shook my head at myself. Pathetic.

I dared myself, then. Dared me to do one hundred posts in one hundred days.

And I took that dare, knowing I could, but not sure I would.

How long is one hundred days? Much longer than it sounds. You know what feels like one hundred days? About sixty days. Then you look at the calendar and realize that you still have a long long way to go.

I’m not pretending that these are the highest quality posts, or the most interesting. What they are is… me. Me meeting a goal that I only shared with two other people.


Because. It was something to try.

And that is why there is whywetry.com.

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Picture of the week: Blue

The reservoir was this incredible dark blue today. Such a wonderful color.

It’s much too late in the year for the reservoir to be mostly unfrozen, but I can’t complain about warm weather and dry roads.

And dark blue water.

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Detective shows: Columbo

I love detective shows. Do I love all of them? Probably not. But I certainly have some favorites.

Let’s start with one of the all-time greats: Colombo.

The best part about this one is that it absolutely is not a who-done-it.

You never have to guess who did it. You always see them do it.

Then what is the show all about, you might ask?

It’s about Columbo.

It’s about how he goes about the investigation – talking to people, asking questions, showing up again and again, getting the suspect to ‘help’ him figure out what the killer was thinking.

I know, it sounds almost boring. But somehow it isn’t. It’s like… watching a tennis match? A chess game? More like that. You’re seeing both sides making their moves, and even though you know who will win, it’s a close game and that makes it interesting.

I’m thinking you either love it or hate it. The fact that there were so many episodes tells me that some decent percentage of people loved it.

Thanks to the magic of the Internet, I can keep watching it long after Peter Falk passed away. I don’t think anyone has ever tried to take his place.

Here’s to Colombo, the one and only.

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Good things

Can I tell you how much I appreciate sleeping through the night? It’s this amazing luxury that I rarely experience, but after those nights of coughing and just being miserable, it’s a true joy.

I also appreciate this magical encyclopedia that is the Internet. Do you know what I’ve looked up in the last few days?

  • That place in Missouri where my husband saw large giraffe sculptures outside as he drove by.
  • Movie reviews for “Bedeviled”: I was entertained by the comments of the people who gave it only one star. We didn’t watch it.
  • How scientists determine the composition of the other planets.
  • The origin of the term “pinking shears”.
  • The actress that was only in season one of the show I was watching online. Where did she go?
  • #LIGHTTHEWORLD – they have vending machines that just take your money to donate items.


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The Golden Record

Because we watched Guardians of the Galaxy 2, Netflix was quite sure we would want to watch a documentary on the Voyager spacecraft.

Because… the music? The humor? The alien characters?

Well, we actually did like some of the music. And we really did watch it.

We sent a golden record into space. It has bagpipe music from Azerbaijan recorded on it. There is a list of the recordings on the NASA site.

We found volcanoes on Io. We got cool pictures of everything.

And we hoped that someone/thing would play the humpback whale sounds and… visit us?

People are so amazingly weird.

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I’m feeling better.

Somewhere around 4:00 today, something felt different. I still have this annoying cough and occasional violent sneezes, but I feel Better.

I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

I did manage to read an entire book and watch Field of Dreams for the first time, but that was about all I could manage beyond getting food and endless cups of water.

There was one brief moment of excitement: I did one of those reach-for-something-and-knock-over-the-giant-cup-of-water things. All over the nightstand and into the top drawer. Because there’s nothing more fun than running for a towel and sopping up a mess when you feel miserable.


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I’m just going to play with these Bluetooth headphones (ear buds?) that I got at a conference. Not sure I like things inside my ears.


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